I am going to be honest. Something that probably isn't a good idea.
But, here it is. I really don't think of my work as "erotica." It isn't even really "femdom." I think of it as science fiction which happens to be set in a world in which sex roles are reversed.
So, that's my confession. If that's the end of my sales to what my publisher delicately calls "a certain readership," well, so be it.